finally home

Flew to England for work. Stayed there the last two weeks for a project that's now done, just now. Phew (sigh of relief)

Tomorrow my husband will fly here to have a decent lunch with me, and take me home :)

This very busy period of time brings me back the memory of my days preparing for GCSE. The exams of course are not that hard if you are not aiming for A* but it was the things we did outside class that kept us busy all the time.

Now it's just like staying at a boarding school waiting to be picked up by dad and mom when the term is over.

need a break

Very busy with my job these two days. After working for almost 30 hours to deal with anurgent issue, I can finally go home. Yawn~

Luckily my husband will pick me home and help me drive my car home.

Miss the freedom in my summer.

the fun of getting married with a naughty girl :)

I'm quite picky about food and love spending money on great food and fine dining.

Last night my husband and me had dinner which was not as good as expected. I was quite disappointed. As I started to complain...

My husband: (annoyed) aren't you picky?
Me: yeah I am
Me: that's why I've picked you

And my husband grinned at me :D

"scolded" by my German teacher

There's one word in German I found quite funny. Whenever I heard the word, I had to laugh. After a few times, my teacher was like =_=

And he asked "Wie alt bist du, Jenny?" (how old are you?)

But I couldn't stop laughing.

And he said "Zehn Jahre alt?" (10 years old?)

I told my husband about this and he was like =_= too.

And then he smiled and said I'm a stupid girl.

Oh, am I?

lazy girl got punished

I promised my husband to do sports once a week and keep a record.

He checked my record today.

The last time I went jogging was one month ago. I didn't know what to say cos there's a jogging trail right opposite to where we live.

The consequence --- during and after:

Now I need to get changed and run 2000m.

Rules at home

Since Daisy has asked about the rules at my home, I'm going to share something about them. Very simple. Just 3 rules:

1. Love ourselves, love each other. Do not do anything detrimental to our own health or our marriage.

2. Use language cautiously and accurately and make sure it is appropriate for the context and the person we speak to.

3. If something is worth doing well, do it well.

It's not like if you lie you get spanked 30 times on your bottom type of rules.

Punishment comes in only if I need a strong reminder about the need to put in the effort to live a healthy life and make our marriage work.