No-spank Experiment

In Switzerland we’ve discussed something very seriously for days.

Both my husband and I think that CDD might affect our future roles as parents when both of us want to raise our kids as confident, autonomous and responsible individuals in an environment free of spanking.

We aren’t having kids yet, but we both think it’s time to think.

So we’ve agreed to replace any form of physical punishment by “lectures” in the first half of 2018. Then we’ll review it and decide if we want to replace the “lectures” with discussions.

The nursery canes, wooden rulers and wooden paddle are still at home, but they’ll be gone by mid 2018 if it works well in the first six months.

Let’s see.

Grades out today

The GPA of my first semester in graduate school is out today.

At 8am, I logged in the system, took a deep breath then clicked “check my grades”, and the grades were right in front of me.

My husband asked me how I did this semester.

I just opened my mouth wide, at a total loss of words.

My husband then said it’s just my first semester. I can catch up next semester when I get more used to the discipline and the British system.

I turned my computer around and let him see my A, A and A-. Weighted GPA: 3.94

Then he rolled his eyes at me, but then he said “well done!”, with a smile.

You know your wife was born cheeky. Just can’t help it :P

Anniversary :)

Back to where my husband first asked me to be his girlfriend --- Switzerland.

At that time he was working there, and I was on student exchange there. One weekend after my finals I didn't have any plan, and neither did he. So we went skiiing together.

N years ago this day, Dec 21.

Now we are back here. With a glass of champagne in our hotel room, we are looking at the place where he asked me to be his gf :)

Every few years we come back here to take a selfie. My husband said when we finally grow old, we will be able to look back and talk about our good, old days and laugh about things that are only between the two of us.

Just took one selfie now. Will save it to our album with the title "growing old together".

Spank-free Holiday

Leaving for our Christmas holiday in Switzerland  tomorrow. Yay!

My husband said this will be a holiday free of spanking, but I need to use my common sense and be responsible.

What if I’m not?

"I can only assume you are. Or I’ll forgive you, and help you learn at your own pace," my husband said.

It’s the end of the year. Let us love each other unconditionally :)

Being forgiven

The next day I woke up from a nightmare.

My husband gave me a big hug and said he’s here with me. Then I just buried my head in his arms.

He asked me what happened. He said I shouted “Help!”, a few times.

Honestly it was the stress from the incident the night before. So now the left cheek of my butt is safe. But no more late night outside until the end of this year.

Half the punishment

Promised to come home by 1am.
Ended up being 2 hours late.

Somebody got punished for drinking for too long outside :(

Hubby will cane the other cheek tomorrow morning ;(

Scary spanking position

I was supposed to meet my in-laws for dinner after my exam. My flight landed on time but I was still late for the dinner for about 45 minutes. Don't know why.

Soon after my husband and I made it home.

"Stand in that corner". My husband said.

My husband fetched the nursery cane, but after listening to my explanation he decided to give me a less severe punishment.

He then held me in his arms and put me over one of his legs and rest his foot on a chair with his knee bent.

So my legs were basically hanging in the air.

Then my husband lifted up my skirt and took down my panties and the penny was about to drop.

But then he smacked my leg and told me not to kick my legs.

45 spanks. One spank for one minute late.

Finally he put me down to the floor. Phew.

First exam in England uni

So busy after my business trip to Asia. And tomorrow I’ll have my first exam in uni and need to fly again.

I’m trying to cram these few days and it seems to work. Since I’m studying really a lot after work my husband seems to be quite pleased. No mentioning of spanking. Nothing whatsoever.

He just made a cup of ginger lemon tea for me :) “Give you some vitamin C”, he said ;)

Bare foot

I don’t like to put on my slippers at home, but my husband insisted that I should do that at least when I go to the balcony or rooftop.

Yesterday I was back home from my business trip. It’s already snowing. 20 degree difference from Asia. The first thing I did after going home was of course getting changed, and I happened to have my shoes off when going to the chilling balcony to get something.

Then...

My husband came and dragged me in :( and said I’m like a small kid.

And he said since I acted like a small kid, he should treat me as a small kid and gave me two light spanks over my pants. He said if I do that again next time he’ll spank my bare bottom and make me stand in the balcony for 3 minutes. Please don’t :(