Homework

We don’t have maintenance spanking. Only when I’m a bad girl I get spanked.

Like I said in my last post, my husband and me will move to another country for three years. He won’t spank me in the first six months so that I have the space to learn and adapt to my new life. Today he made a suggestion:

I keep a diary every day after the move for the first six months. Based on our trust on each other, matter what mistakes I make I won’t be punished. I only need to write about it honestly. And my husband will only check if I have made a diary entry every day without reading what I write.

My husband called it “Starbucks Approach”, because this is how Starbucks manages their staff. The staff can make mistakes like breaking a mug and simply write about it. They can also put down interesting things like a customer’s tea preference. In this way the staff has an awareness of what he’s doing.

So this will start in June. Half the month to go, but if I’m a bad girl by mid-June I’ll still be spanked.

Moving

We are moving to another country for three years because of my husband’s job. Luckily I can get relocated and work in a branch of my current company in the same city. Because of the move, all the canes, paddles, etc will be thrown away.

Can we not get new ones?

 I asked my husband.

If you are a good girl.

He said.

The first six months I will be given a lot of time to get used to the change of environment. No spanking only discussions.

What happens after six months?

New cane at home. A well spanked bottom. Tram lines on a pink bottom. Can’t sit on my bottom.

Hopefully none of these will happen.

Interesting German expression

In German there is this expression “dürfen”, which can be literally translated as “is allowed to”. I find it interesting cos when I ask my husband if i can do something / if it is a good idea to do something...

In English, I only say “Can I...?”

But in German, when I said “Kann ich...?”, my husband always said I should say “darf ich...?” (Am i allowed to...?)

I know in German können (can) only refers to somebody’s ability to do something, whereas dürfen is about asking for permission.

But still...

Whenever I have to say “darf ich...?” (Am I allowed to...?”),  I really feel that the other person I am talking to has an authority to decide on something related to me.

My feeling might be wrong but right now with my B1 German Level it really feels this way.

Pink bottom on the beach (2)

With my freshly spanked pink bottom, I walked for 3 minutes. Luckily there were not many people on our way back. Only 5 people in total. 3 were far away from us. 2 very close, and one of the girls raised her eyebrows when she saw my behind :(

I tried not to make eye contact with her. Like an ostrich :(

After they had passed, my husband asked me how it felt that everyone knows I’m a naughty girl :(

I blushed and said nothing.

Then we walked 1 minute more. As we were opposite to the hotel, I felt very nervous. Is everyone going to see my pink butt? Should I try to cover it with my hands or not? What should I do? :(

At that moment my husband held me in his arms and walked through the hotel lobby so that no one can see my spanked bottom. He kept walking for what felt like almost two minutes.

I felt love when he carried me 💕 so when he put me down on the bed in our hotel villa, I had my arms around his neck and kissed him and... ❤️

Pink bottom on the beach

My husband took me to an island for vacation. On the second last day I did something very naughty on the beach, and I got spanked :(

I was wearing thong bikini so there was no need to pull down my pants.

It was a private beach, and there was no one but us.

My husband kept spanking me for minutes. I don’t know how many spanks it was but it must be hundreds. It must be very pink.

Then my husband wanted to bring me back to our hotel villa, which meant walking a few minutes with my freshly spanked pink bottom 😢

Everyone could see it 🍑 😭

I’ll tell you what happened next.

Top 3 creative punishments

Punishments tend to become less effective when they are used repeatedly. My husband is very creative when it comes to punishing me 😰 so he never has this problem.

#3 Open your mouth
Once I said something a bit impolite (not that serious), and my husband told me to open my mouth for one minute.

It wasn’t painful but it did make me feel that I was punished :(

#2  You want to do it? Do it again
I’m not allowed to throw things cos of my mood. Once I did it, then my husband let me calm down. We talked for a while.

Afterwards I got punished :( my husband punished me to throw and pick up that thing for 50 times.

After the 50th time, I picked up the object. My husband asked, “do you still want to throw things?”

No 😢

#1  Choose your own combination
Most of the time I don’t have a choice of the implement, but when I do, I can normally decide
- which implement
- where I’m spanked
- what position I keep

For example:
1. Hand, bottom, OTK
2. Nursery cane, bottom, standing

But my husband can decide if it’s on bare bottom or clothed bottom, and whether another punishment is needed.