homework when my husband is away

My husband has assigned homework, because I've recently learnt perfect tense in my German course. It's like past tense in English.

So my homework is to handwrite a short paragraph in German telling my husband what I do every day when he's away and send him a snapshot of my paragraph. My husband said if I write well he'll buy me a small gift, but there's no punishment no matter how my writing looks like as long as I've put in the effort to write.

This is the one for today. Very childish?

Enjoy reading --- if you can understand German.

Please don't punish me if I've made mistakes. I've just learnt the language for three months :)

home alone

My husband is going on business trip for a few days. I'm home alone.

Before he left home he had said "Be a good girl when I'm not around" and kissed me.

I said I will.

I have another exam coming up this Thurs anyway.

My husband has already made it clear the reward for getting a good score :)

And the punishment for getting a low score is also clear. It is not spanking but something even more horrifying: I will not be allowed to leave home for four Saturdays but stay home studying 6 hours a day with an experienced, well-qualified tutor from our church which encourages CDD. If I do not follow him well, my husband will let him hit my palm with a wooden ruler whenever he finds necessary :( And I'll need to retake the exam and pass it with a good score.

Actually I used to be quite good at taking exams when I was still in school, but I think I'd better to listen to my husband and study a lot before Thursday :)

It doesn't matter if I don't get the carrot, but I definitely don't want the stick.

fun on the beach

Got the last level of CFA done.

My husband suggested that I had this morning off and we went to the beach. Just for a walk and a nice brunch.

After the brunch we were strolling on the beach, I said I don't want to walk. Then this sweet man cuddled me and let me cling over his shoulders and waist like a baby koala :)

Then he got a bit tired said I should walk. I kissed him and said I like YOU carry me. I feel safe in your arms. And he looked very satisfied and tried to carry me over his shoulder.

It's fun to look at the beach and the sky from this angle. I giggled and told him I was drowning in his love.

Guess what my husband did?

"Wake up!", he said. 

And he smacked my bottom a few times as he said that.

I said "I'm not scared" and turned around to make a face at him.

Then he put me down and started tickling me.

So childish huh? :P Maybe sometimes we just have to forget who we are and how old we are and just have some fun.

We do loads of fun stuffs when I'm a good girl :)

what? im turning 30?

My husband has arranged a two-week trip to celebrate my birthday later this month. We often just have dinner or go on a one-day trip.

"Because it's a special year", he said.

"What's special this year? Got spanked twice as much by you?", I said.

Then he told me I'm 30 soon.

What!?

I just feel not too long ago I was still listening to Britney Spears' "I'm not a girl not yet a woman"

One day I was driving to school like I was 17 I heard it on the radio, and it described exactly how I felt... 12 years already? WOW!

I look into the mirror but I still look very much the same. I haven't put on much weight. I don't have wrinkles or something even when I smile. I still have good memory and pick things up quickly.

I'm still shocked.

Totally shocked.

30.

5 most feared spanking tools my husband has used

In these six years, we have learnt a lot and changed a lot to make our marriage work.

This change is also with the tools my husband has used to punish me when I'm not a good girl. I've just finished my CFA exam. Just hope I won't fail and get punished by any of these.

Below are the five tools that I fear the most.

#5 Hand

My husband first used an open hand but now it's always closed hand. He surely knows how to control the rhythm and made me feel very sorry.


#4 Wooden ruler

The longer it is, the more it hurts.

And it's scary to have the punishment right in front of me.

I had it a few times on my hand in my first year of marriage. Now I don't make those kind of careless mistakes but I still remember how it felt when my husband said "Hold out your hand. Palm upwards! Fingers together! Raise that hand higher!".



#3 IKEA plastic hanger

It's almost as painful as a wooden ruler, but it's used on my butt. The scariest thing is the very dramatic sound it produces. I know a strap can be a lot worse but fortunately my husband has never used them.


#2 school paddle

My husband used it two times on me, for two serious offenses. Each time he gave me 10 spanks on my bottom. It always left horrible marks on my butt for a day or two like these:

And I couldn't sit for at least a day and had to sleep on my front.


#1 canes

One flick of the cane is enough to stop almost any misbehavior immediately.

Once I threw away the nursery cane at home because I didn't want to be caned. When my husband asked me where it was, I said I had no idea, and I never touched it. The next day he found out I lied to him and got home with two nursery canes.

He put the two canes together with a rubber band and hit my bare bottom. The first stroke stung sooooooooo much that I jumped up from the floor and covered my butt with my hands by reflex and cried with shock.

I never needed the second stroke.


I know there are other implements that hurt more, like tawse, which my dad got spanked with in his boarding school in Scotland when he was a teen, or some thicker canes. My husband said he's not there to "beat the s*** out of me" but just want me to be a good girl.

how I met my husband

2007.6.3

I just finished my finals and turned in all my assignments. I went to a meeting where I met a guest speaker who also went to my university, a few years ago.

This guest speaker later became my friend, then my bf, and finally my husband.

My husband said he first saw me in this corridor.

I don't remember seeing him there, but he said I smiled at him and it melted his heart.

When we first started seeing each other, I noticed that sometimes he liked saying "listen..." to get my attention. Sometimes when I did something cheeky he kidded and said I needed to be punished. Sometimes he gave me one light smack on my bottom over my clothes.



Little did I know I would be given real punishment two years later.

I do not remember exactly why I was punished, but I cannot forget how shocked I was when he said he was going to spank me and asked me to lean across his knee. He spanked me on my bare bottom with his hand for 10 times and told me to stay in the corner of the room for 5 minutes like a poor two-year-old in the naughty corner when I was actually 20.

The beginning was a bit like Grey and Ana in Fifty Shades, except that my husband and I went to the same university, and I was always his friend / gf never a submissive before becoming his wife.

Ten years have passed after we first. Six years since we got married. Have I become a better wife? :)

carrot or stick

In less than 24 hours I'll be taking my CFA exam.

My husband said if I pass, we'll go to a special vacation in Dec. I can make one wish, and he'll make it come true :)

The passing rate in these few years is just around 50%.

If I don't pass, I'll literally get the stick :(

Please wish me luck.