one day getaway

My husband said I deserve a getaway after all my hard work. I had to work even overnight two days ago but my task is now done.

One day getaway before another project starts.

naughty chair

My husband said my behaviour today is good, but if I'm naughty again he'll consider getting a chair like this:

And he said he'll make me sit there facing the wall with my hands on my head / holding a bible with both of my hands above the head.

And he might make me keep the pacifier in my mouth / read aloud the lines I've written about my own offenses to make me feel ashamed of what I've done.

And he might make the timeout longer if I do not sit properly / keep moving my body.

And he might undress me leaving only my bra and panties and put a nursery cane / IKEA flat hanger on my lap which I will be punished with after the timeout.

No :( I don't want a chair like this...

"Then be a good girl" my husband said.

doubled the punishment

I still have coughing problem but I had iced tea yesterday evening. It's just irresistible in the summer. He saw it and twisted my ear once and said he'll deal with me in the morning

"Noooooooooooo!"
"Don't tell me no!.

This morning as I woke up my husband pulled down my panties and gave me a few hand spanks and said "bad girl!". I thought that's all I get until he said we had enough discussions and he's given me many chances already,

and he took these out:

Punishment with two canes (!!!)

My husband scolded and took off my pants and panties and started hitting my butt with these two nursery canes at the same time!

You can't imagine how painful it was. I covered my butt with my hands then my husband hit my legs.

Every stroke resulted in two "lines". Then my husband made me stand facing a mirror and popped a pacifier into my mouth to make me feel really ashamed of what I did.

He asked me to look myself into the mirror. Teary eyes, a pacifier in my mouth, caned marks all over my two legs and bottom.

"What did you do to earn a punishment like this?"
"Will you do it again?"

The pacifier is still in my mouth now :( I won't be allowed to remove it till lunch.

almost earned a punishment

My husband and I were in the bedroom, and he suddenly pulled the strings of my panties and it immediately fell onto the floor.

The problem was, I just had some cold lemonade, so I didn't know what this was supposed to mean.

Will he put me across his knee?
Will he hug me and take me to the bed?

Then he asked me why I looked that nervous.

I could only tell him what's on my mind, and he laughed.

No punishment just fun stuffs this time :)

But my husband said if I have cold drinks again when I still cough, he'll get a pacifier and give me a new punishment: keep the pacifier in my mouth whenever we're back to the.hotel suite so I won't be able to eat or drink.anything cold without his permission.

Omg!!!!!

Why is my husband so creative? =_=

good girl gets rewarded

Passed CFA Level 3
Taken good care of my nephew for the long weekend
Behaved well after the last big punishment

Now time for a two-day vacation :) my first time here.

when a kid can't handle his emotions

My husband said I'm good at taking care of kids.

This morning we had to leave our house. 50 mins before we did, I tried to tell my nephew we will need to leave, so he had time to get ready and say goodbye to all the toys he had at our place. 15 mins before we had to get into the car, I gave him a checklist written entirely with pictures and asked him to check if he had everything with him.

Then we left the house on time.

On the way the little boy said he wants candy, which was at my home. And he started crying...

If he's with just my husband, I can imagine he must have parked the car and scolded him. But I tried another approach.

I just said "I know you want to have candy but we don't have any candy. You feel sad. It's ok to cry. Crying makes you feel better". Then he just cried and my husband looked at me like "what the hell is this?"

30 seconds later, I asked the little boy "Have you cried enough?" "Yes"
"Do you feel better?" "Yes"

Then he stopped crying.

Good. Then I asked if he wanted to listen to a story or some music. And the car was back to peace.

Sometimes you just need to help a kid talk about his emotions and let him cool down a bit.

Maybe my husband should sometimes be more empathetic and let me calm down and don't spank me that much? ;)

have kids? no kids?

I don't cook at home ever since I've got married, but today I've made an exception.

It's quite easy to make but my husband was surprised at my creativity :)

Tada!

And the question of whether my husband and I should have our own kids has popped up again.

Freedom & flexibility VS Family

It's never easy to decide.

3-day nanny

I'm taking care of my bro's 3-year-old for three days.

Day 1. Once the little boy arrived at our home, he took off his shoes and socks and went to our bathroom to wash his hands -- all by himself. My husband and I were totally surprised.

Then it was about time for an afternoon nap. My husband asked the little one if he'd like us to read a story to him, but he asked if he's allowed to read his storybook by himself before he slept. My husband and I were surprised again.

My husband said kids in Germany normally don't learn to read till they go to school at 5-6. And I was in France around the boy's age and couldn't read till I was 4 and a half.

The language is simple, like:
"Buzz looks for woody. Andy's other toys helped".

And this takes up one whole page, in large font size with a big, colourful picture.

I said to my husband I don't know how my bro and my sis-in-law have raised such a good kid. Then my husband said yeah, he should learn from my bro and make me a better girl =_=

Well, as far as I know they never spank the boy. So spare the rod, find the kid?

a brand new day

After the painful spanking, this morning I was woken up by my husband with a kiss on my face, then he sucked my nipples and followed my spine down to my butt and my legs. And he gave me a kiss on my butt and legs, where he caned a lot yesterday :( All the cane marks are gone by now, as if nothing had happened.

My husband asked our helper to prepare a very good English breakfast for us. He then touched my face and said if I want to meet my ex-bfs in the future, there's no problem. I just tell him and we meet together. No need to lie.

He said it broke his heart when I lied to him and when he had to see me cry soooo much when I was punished :( aw...

But it's all gone. The punishment. The pain. The tears.

Now time for a good breakfast :)

a big punishment

My husband doesn't like me seeing my ex-boyfriends, no matter whether it's from as old as high school or what. But one of them happened to be here on business.

And you should know that we've managed to meet in the end. And no one could tell cos I changed his name on my phone to a girl's name. To cut the long story short, my husband found out when he heard me call another guy's name in my dream and got totally mad at me and said he'll use the nursery cane on me :(

I told him I've passed CFA, but he said that's another matter and we'll deal with things one by one. A big punishment first (!) Then he removed all my clothes, leaving only my lace panties and my bra.

The punishment started right away. No explanation was needed. And because of my period, his targets were my legs :( I was supposed to be standing to be caned, but I just couldn't help moving my body. The more I tried to stay away from the cane, the harder he hit and the more he hit (sob sob). I just cried non-stop like a baby. I bet there were tears all over my face. 

The cane hit all over my legs. And all over my butt. I still had my panties on but it didn't give me much protection. When it's finally over, my husband told me to wipe my tears and take a shower and spread some lotion over my legs and butt.

Sigh. Every caned mark still felt sore when I tried to wash myself in the shower. I dried myself with a towel and looked myself into the mirror. My butt had some patches of red. My legs had many tramlines in all directions.

When will they be gone? :(

"Now you feel embarrassed. What have you learnt from this?" My husband asked.
"Don't lie, and don't cheat" I said.

And my husband said "good".

What a painful lesson :(

maintenance "homework"

After I was spanked the other day, I happened to have learnt something like can, should, want to, must in my German class.

Then my husband made me write a few sentences with those words, to remind me that I can't drink anything cold until I have fully recovered.

This is what I have written:

I don't know how to use "when" or "if" yet. If you can read German, you should know that this is what I've written:

"I cannot drink beer. I can drink tea or water.

Maybe I should not have any ice-cream.

Today I want to have iced tea, but I am still coughing. I must wait."

So my husband doesn't give maintenance spanking but maintenance "homework".

finally stopped coughing

Still no cold beer, no iced tea, no coke yet. My husband said if I drink something cold when he's not around and start coughing again he won't spank me...

but he'll prescribe a really bitter cough medicine to me (!)

He brought home six bottles of sparkling drinks :) but I can't drink it yet :( need to wait for one week till my cough is completely gone.

well deserved spanking

Sob sob...

Drinking icy cold coke when having a cough + lying = a hard hand spanking

Everything is self-explanatory :(

consequence

Still coughing.

My husband said I'm not allowed to drink anything cold until my cough is gone, cos cold stuffs stimulate my trachea.

But I love this:

And I had a glass.

When I was helping myself with the second glass, suddenly my ear was pulled from behind (!)

"Did I make myself not clear to you?"

"Do you know you won't recover if you drink this?"

"Do you want to get spanked?"






Then my husband poured my second glass of sparkling orange juice into the sink (sob).

And he took my hand, turned it over and smacked my palm once (sob sob).


"Be a good girl. I'll buy you a few bottles of this when you stop coughing"