Warning

My husband never suddenly spanks me. He always talks to me first, and maybe give a warning. Sometimes he does that without saying a word. Sometimes with a simple, direct message. 

Arranged by levels of severity:

1. Call my name with a stern voice 

“Jenny!!!”

2. Give me a look

3. Point at me with his index finger

4. Give me a light smack on my wrist

5. Put an IKEA plastic flat hanger / a nursery cane on the table

6. Ask a question 

“Do you want your panties to be pulled down?”

7. Pull down my panties and ask whether I still want to sit comfortably 

8. Pull one of my ears lightly

9. Twist one of my ears 

10. Twist one of my ears and drag me to a corner by pulling my ear

The most common ones? 1, 2, 6, 7, 8

How about you?