punishment during period

My husband have more tolerance for me when I'm having period, so I'm supposed to be quite "safe".

But of course you can tell what happened to me from the subject :(

I got punished again. Two days in a row.

Last night I set my alarm clock but it didn't work this morning. My husband woke me up at 8 and asked if I should be at work at 9. I got up quickly and had some breakfast and went to work at once.

This afternoon when I was back from work, he asked me to tell him what happened.

Turned out that I set my alarm to 7pm instead of 7am. It's not my first time. Many years ago when I was still a university student, I did that by mistake for three times. The third time I missed my final exam and got a D instead of an A for that course. My husband (who was my bf back then) gave my bare bottom 5 heavy spanks with a wooden school paddle that I couldn't sit for almost a day.

Since then I never made the same mistake, until today.

"Looks like you need a strong reminder", my husband said.

But he knows I'm having my period, and we aren't at home.

This means if he wants to hit very hard, he'll use something available in the hotel room. A wooden hanger? A wet towel? I have never been hit with these but I hope he's thinking about something else.

I begged him not to spank me that hard but he told me to keep quiet :(

He said he needs to think about it and told me to stand in the corner for 5 minutes.

I begged him again. Then my husband put a pencil from the hotel room on my upper lip and told me to hold it for 5 minutes. If you can't imagine, you can search on google image "pencil on upper lip".

He never puts soap or any chemical into my mouth because it is bad to my health. One pencil is enough to keep my mouth shut :(

5 minutes later my husband came and removed the pencil. He said I'm lucky. The wooden hangers in this room are too heavy for spanking. The LAN cables are too harsh on me. And he can't spank my bare bottom because of my period.

With the following picture in watercolor mode, can you guess how I was spanked?

My husband held me by my waist and spanked the part that connects my butt and my leg. Is it called the sit spot?

I think he must have spanked each leg at least 30 times, really hard, with his hand.

With the romantic lighting in this room, the two red areas on my upper thigh are in brown in the watercolored picture above.

Maybe I should be happy at least I'm not at home, or I might be punished with a nursery cane. Later this afternoon we saw a shoehorn in the room.

I must have looked at my husband with a lot of fear (!!!)

But he said the spanking just now was enough.

"Be a good girl from now and don't make me use it on you. Is it clear?" My husband asked.

My response was a firm "yes" without any question.

an unforgettable lesson for being forgetful

Some work needs to wait till tomorrow so I went hiking with some local friends this afternoon.

It's supposed to be an easy trail so I only got 800ml of water and went there in sneakers, but as soon as I saw everyone wear their hat or cap, I realize I left mine at home :(

The first hour was cloudy. Then it became burning hot without the shade. The remaining 30 mins I was under the sun with no sunglasses or hat.

Needless to say, I got sunburned.

To make the long story short, I got some "burning sensation" on my butt as well.

My husband said he was going to punish me with the five senses :(

He first spread the after-sun cooling gel all over my body. Then I got 50 spanks for each item I forgot to bring:
1. Hat
2. Sunglasses
3. Sunscreen

The cooling gel made each spank more painful, but I wasn't crying yet.

Then my husband announced the next punishment: copy "hat, sunglasses, sunscreen and 1.5L of water" 200 times - the first 100 with my right hand, the next 100 with my left hand (I'm right-handed). My husband crossed out 5 lines I wrote with my right hand and 25 lines I wrote with my left hand and told me to write them again, tidily :( Then I started crying. He passed some tissue to me but didn't wipe my tears this time.

But the punishment was not over yet. I was made to stand holding my ears with my upper arm at a right angle to my body for 5 minutes. This rather awkward position made my arms and shoulders sore after just 3 minutes. And my husband said he'd extend the time to 8-10 minutes if I didn't do it properly.

This time I was also given a maintenance punishment :(

Every morning after having a shower and applying the after-sun lotion, I will need to bare my bottom and stand holding my ears for 3-8 minutes (my husband said the time entirely depends on my behavior).

This will continue until my sunburn is gone, which means at least 4 to 5 days :(

a husband with high expectations

My husband sent me this, cos I've recently started learning German.

This one is simple enough for me. It can be translated as:

Do you have any hobby?
Sleeping.
No, I mean something more active.
Eating.









I said it sounds like an ideal life to me, just sleeping and eating.

My husband was a bit surprised I said that. Then he suddenly kept a straight face and said he knows I'm capable of doing many things well, and I shouldn't be wasting my time and talents.

Then we had a totally nonsense dialogue...
Me: I like sleeping and eating. Can do it the whole day.
Hubby: I like spanking your bottom. Can do it the whole day if you keep talking nonsense.

Noooooooooooooooooooooo!

just the way you are :)

My hotel room has a very special mirror that allows me to look at myself from 270 degrees. Then I've realized that I'm not as slender as I thought I was :(

Me: I think I've been putting on weight... um... do you think it's good to change my diet?
My husband: Don't worry. You don't need to do anything.
Me: Why?
My husband: I like you the way you are :)
Me: :)

And I kissed my husband :)

Cos you're amazing *just* *the* *way* *you* *are*... (this song is ringing in my ears)

On the second thought...

Me: Um... then why did you spank me and didn't like me just the way I was?
My husband: I like you, but sometimes I didn't like your behaviour

Wow.

6 years

My husband has made it here after a 5-hour flight to celebrate our 6th anniversary.

Can't believe we're married for six years already. My husband has been guiding me, supporting me, and sometimes disciplining me for my own good.

I've learnt to be a good girl, um, most of the time ;)

But no matter how strict he is or how naughty I can become, we both enjoy being with each other. I hope we can be there for each other in the next six year, sixteen years and even sixty years.

I love you! Ich liebe dich ;)

a short break from "spank & massage"

When I'm not a good girl, sometimes I get invited to "spank & massage" by my husband. At "spank & massage" we talk, stand, spank, rub, reflect, talk. Sometimes I get the VIP service of longer and harder spanking on some special occasions. Once I got offered an exclusive package with a double nursery cane service and experienced spanking with two canes which doubled the effect and left a remarkable, unique souvenir of one-week 3D tattoos composed of horizontal lines in twos, bringing a special touch of abstract art to the boring skin.

Unfortunately "spank & massage" is not in business now, so  I try "spa & massage".

Here I just close my eyes and relax. Then look at the sea with a sip of fruit punch.

a treat to myself

Chaired a meeting today, a stressful meeting with a number of difficult people. It turned out to be okay, but I'm knackered.

I told my husband something about my meeting. He said I really should give myself a treat.

So I flew one hour and came here, just to relax.

Just gazing at the sea, doing nothing.

Thank God I'm still alive. Next Monday I have another challenge. please tell me I'm going to be okay.

business trip all of a sudden

Suddenly being sent to another country for business till next Wed.

When I'm more than 3000 miles away from my husband, trust is very important. No hubby taking care of me, no one reminding me to do this and that, no one saying "no" to me, and of course no punishment whatsoever.

We don't even facetime because of the time difference.

All alone in this room tonight.

Too spacious for one person.

nostalgic

Last night my childhood friend came visit me and got me these!!!

We kept talking about our good, old days in school. We used to eat a lot of snacks like these. We used to do lots of silly things together.

Once we were even punished by our discipline mistress and got sent to the laundry service department in our school for one week. In that week we folded more clothes than we ever have to for the rest of our life. But why were we punished? 

Already 14 years ago. Gosh... Really miss my time at boarding school.

Miss England badly...

Miss the teenage "me" badly...

Miss my innocent, sometimes nonchalant "self" that I've outgrown, badly.

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My husband suddenly came over and gave me a very light swat on my bottom.

"Enough nostalgia. Go to bed now, or you'll miss the time when your butt was not sore" he said.

a special, tasty treat

I've managed not to be punished again today. My husband always says it all depends on how I choose to behave.

This evening my husband gave me a pleasant surprise.

When I was home from work at 7, I saw some arrow signs on the floor. "Follow me", it says.

I followed the arrows and walked towards the balcony and saw this:

Then my husband cuddled me from behind :)

He said he has made this himself.

A reward for having learnt from this morning and behaved well for the rest of the day :)



P.S. We don't have maintenance spanking but my husband said he'll give me "maintenance punishment": I need to switch on flight mode and sleep with my panties pulled down tonight :( so tomorrow morning I'll remember not to use my phone when I'm still in bed.

no spanking, but still sore

If you've been reading my last few posts, you probably know that my husband is not happy seeing me use my phone when I lie on the bed.

This morning I used my phone as my alarm clock. I woke up, turned off the alarm, checked my WhatsApp messages...

and oops... I did it again... using my phone when I'm lying on the bed.

The punishment for doing it the first time in a day is having my pants and panties pulled down for one day. I still remember, clearly. But my husband would be out for work the entire day, and I also had a meeting this morning.

So my husband said we'll have a variation to the punishment.

My husband asked me to lie on the bed.

He pulled down my pants and panties and put me in the diaper position.

"Can you please don't spank me?" I said.
"I won't spank you. It's going to be something related to your bad behaviour" my husband said.

Then he passed my phone to me and told me to hold it with both hands and keep my arms and legs straight. Basically my arms and legs were parallel to each other and at a right-angle with my upper body.

My husband started a "count-down" from 8 minutes. "If your legs or arms are not straight, we'll start again from 8 minutes", my husband warned.

That 8 minutes felt like hours.

I don't know why but I cried. My husband came and wiped my tears but only said "2 minutes more".

2 minutes later, he cuddled me and announced that the punishment was over.

He said, next time when you lie down on the bed with your phone, remember how you felt the last 8 minutes.

"Don't do it again today. Or I'll take your phone away from you" he added.

after being spanked a lot more than usual...

In 2016, I got hand-spanked twice and caned 3 times the whole year.

In 2017, I have already been hand-spanked 3 times, caned 3 times and "ear-pulled" 3 times :(

And it's not even the middle of the year.

Me: Can you please don't spank me? :(
My husband: I won't have to spank you if you behave yourself (and he stroked my hair)

Then my husband suggested me to check my "reflection journal", something that I need to write after every spanking.

Am I "naughtier"? Has my husband become much stricter on me?

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This is what I've found:

Top 3 reasons for getting spanked in this year were:
#1 Wasting time - going to bed late, getting up late, going home late when I'm sick, putting important things off

#2 Being forgetful - forgot to give instructions to our cleaner 

#3 Using impolite words - just once... and I got a "wet punishment" when we were on vacation :(

My husband discussed this with me, and we came up with a few things to turn the negatives into positives:

1. keep a healthy lifestyle - read in the living room / study but not on the bed, get up and go to bed at the right time
2. keep a concise to-do list and set up alerts on my phone for very important things
3. understand my emotions and be careful with my word choice

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My husband said we're human so it's ok to have negative emotions or feelings. Sometimes it's okay to be laid back, or a bit lazy, but it's important to understand what is the right time to do that and never let my emotions take the full control.

"I hope you won't spank me till at least the end of summer" I said.

But my husband said it all depends on how I CHOOSE TO behave.

I have...

I have learnt German for two months. It's one of my husband's two native languages, so sometimes he sends me pictures with simple Germen quotes or dialogs like the one above.

This one can be translated as:

Eat your vegetables or I'll change the Wifi password!

Um, but I really don't like parsley and green beans :(

So I said to my husband "I have 4G" ;)

Guess what he said?

"Yes, I know, but look, I have a cane" ;)

three stages of punishment

My husband went into our bedroom and saw me use my phone when lying on the bed again.

"What're you doing?"

I sat up straight, waiting for a lecture.

But I was told to stand in the corner of the room and prepare for an explanation.

A few minutes later, my husband didn't put me across his knee. He asked me to explain to him why I keep using my phone when I lie on the bed.

I didn't have any explanation. It takes time to change a habit.

My husband frowned but didn't get mad.at me. He said he'll give me time.

One week.

He'll keep a nursery cane next to our bed for one week, as a reminder, but he won't cane me.

It works like this:
The first time in a day: no spanking, but I'll need to bare my bottom

The second time in a day: my phone will be taken away from me for 24 hours. I'll use an old IPhone for work / emergency contact

"After one week, if I do it again, then what will happen?" I asked.

He picked up the cane and asked "What do you think?"

emotional blackmail?

I often feel a bit scared before being punished by my husband, especially before he raises his cane at me.

Is it christian discipline or manipulation? Somtimes it's hard to tell.

Most of the time he lets me discuss or even argue with him with logical reasoning, but sometimes he just pulls down my pants and spanks me, when we're at home.

I'm surprised my husband got me this book today.

He said he's been spanking me a lot these two months so he wants me to think it through with this book and discuss with him.

But the ironic thing is that, he has just given me two smacks on my butt with his open hand for using my phone and reading the book when lying on the bed.

a lesson I've learnt

My husband told me to write a reflection here as part of my punishment, so it's going to be long and factual. You might have guessed what happened to me with the two canes above.

This is what happened:


Yesterday my husband thumbed through my German textbook out of curiosity, then he saw lots of empty blanks in the homework section. He asked why I didn't do my homework.

I told him my teacher said homework is optional, and it's ok as long as I understand the things taught in class. I told him the truth, so it would really be perfectly ok if I did understand everything taught.

My husband asked me one question from the homework section to see if I really didn't need the homework. I... I couldn't answer. Then he gave me another chance and tried another one. Same. And yet another one, with the same result.

He asked me what I was going to do about it. I said I would get my homework done yesterday. My husband agreed.

Three hours later, he asked me about my progress, but I was watching TV and did nothing yet. Then he sai I need a strong warning and asked if I wanted to stand at the wall holding my ears with my arms up for 5 mins or get a warning spanking.

Spanking can be painful but standing holding my ears is even worse. It's not as easy as "hands on the head", and I'm likely to end up being spanked for not keeping my arms up. So I picked a warning spanking.

Six light strokes over my panties with the "thicker" cane on the right above.

Maybe you don't see any difference between the canes, but it did hurt less than the one on the left.

Then my husband rubbed my bottom with some moisturizing cream and told me to start doing my homework.











I did get started but there were quite a number of words I didn't understand, so I tried to look them up using an an online dictionary.

And then I accidentally checked out a really fun variety show on YouTube, and the "related videos".


Three hours later, my husband came back and saw what I was doing. I tried to explain but he said they were all excuses. We discussed for a long time, and I finally said I was wrong. Then I was told to go to our dressing room to fetch the thinner cane, the one reserved for punishment.

My husband told me to take off my pants and panties, put my hands on the table and stick my bottom out.

Then I was told to keep the position and reflect.

After a few minutes he asked me why I was punished. I said I didn't get my homework done.


"Anything else?" my husband asked. "I shouldn't have made so many excuses and wasted our time." I heard myself say.


Then I heard "swish, swish, swish". My heart was racing.

My husband said he was going to give me six strokes on each cheek of my bottom. Six for making excuses, six for wasting time.

Just a few strokes of this cane are enough to make me feel very sorry :(

It often leaves slightly raised welts as you can see above. I wanted to touch the welts and rub my own bottom but my husband said I wasn't allowed to.

Then I was told to bring my homework over to our bar table and complete it standing, when my bottom was still burning.

Lesson learnt: I should not waste time distracting myself with unimportant things ---  not just when doing my German homework, but with anything, I can explain but should not make excuses when I'm wrong.

My husband said this month is tough because of my busy job and my preparation for CFA and many stuffs happening in my life, and that's why I should do the right thing at the right time.

I'll learn how to prioritize things better :(


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P.S. My husband read the above reflection said it's acceptable. But he added that my English is not good enough and I should learn more verbs and adjectives after getting my CFA exam done.

Then we had the following dialogue:

Me: English is not my first language, but I did get A in GCSE First Language English
Hubby: It was 14 years ago, Jenny
Me: Okay, okay
He narrowed his eyes at me.
Me: I'll listen to you and get "100 Verbs for Babies" tomorrow
I grinned at him with an evil smile.

Hubby: I'll look for "100 Creative Ways to Spank a Naughty Girl with a Smart Mouth" with you tomorrow
Me: It's currently out of stock.

My husband smiled back at me. Then I kissed him and whispered to him "thank you for your advice" :)

I was born a naughty girl. Sometimes I just can't help it :P

my husband has started a "reward system" :)

My husband said I've been a good girl these few days, so we're back to the "self-reporting" mode. No spanking unless I report to him / I have done something outrageous.

My husband said if I behave well, I will be allowed to write 80 words once a week. The second week 160 words, the third week 240 words, so on and so forth.

This blog will become "when a good girl is praised"???

(80 words)

last entry: seriously punished

I haven't recovered from my cold yet, but I got punished seriously because of a drink after work.

I only had a glass of sparkling wine, but as soon as I was home, my husband asked me why where this smell of cigarette comes from. I was supposed to go home immediately after work because of my cold.

And then he questioned me with my to-do-list. The things there never get done. I said I had no time but he asked me about my drink and... this blog. He's found out about this.

So you are a naughty girl wanting to be punished huh? I'll give you something to write about.

"Nooooooooo!"

 "5 strokes for each item on your list. Take off your dress"

 "Nooooooooo!" I protested.

And my husband twisted my ear and dragged me to our dressing room and fetched a nursery cane.

"I'm sorry" I said.

My husband told me I'm going to get 45 strokes. 5 for each item.

 "Nooooooooo!"

And he pulled my ear again and asked if I wanted to make my final post more dramatic.

"I'm sorry" I said, but my husband said I should be very sorry and started hitting.

I thought he'd hit my butt, but he started hitting my upper thigh, on the front, on the back. Tears trailed down my cheeks as soon as he started with the first stroke. It was surprisingly painful.

Then my lower thigh, left and right.

Finally my bottom. "I'm going to give you 15 strokes on your butt" my husband announced. By the time he made it to 6 I was already dancing in pain with lots of tears.

The most serious punishment spanking I've ever got.

My husband told me to show you my damage.

My butt and legs are still a bit sore. The caned marks coming from all directions on my butt and the horizontal lines on my thighs will stay with me for at least three days.

I took the pic of the "fresh" caned marks with the "artist" mode on my phone and it has added too much shadow to my butt -- as if my butt was as hard as iron and as dark as chocolate :( the marks look lighter in the pic too. It's dark pink in real.

And this is my last post here. My husband said I should focus on my studies and health for now.

Thanks for your support in the last few months.

I will learn to be a good girl and hopefully won't get spanked again like this.

Goodbye.

no studying, no spanking, no punishment

I've caught a bad cold.

No more work or discipline for the next 12 hours.

I'm supposed to wake up at 2am for an important phone meeting but then I saw this book which my husband bought me last year:

Eugene O' Kelly, former CEO of KPMG wrote about overworking and realizing the essense of life after being told he has less than a year to live.

Well, I'm of course not working in an accounting firm, but hearing my unusual breathing as I'm typing this lying on my bed, I'm thinking if I should just close my eyes and leave all my work behind.







Just now my husband has come in closed the curtain and told me to put down my phone and stop replying to work mail. Like my secondary school biology teacher, he said common cold is caused by virus which cannot be cured with medicine but rest. That's why the cold medicine means to make people sleepy. Maybe I should just do as I'm told.

Good "night"!

I said to my husband, and he said "good girl" and kissed me good "night" :)

leaving marks or not?

When my husband spanks me with a nursery cane, he often leaves a few "lines" on my skin, for warning I guess.

Something similar to this, usually on my bottom or upper thighs:

But sometimes he does prefer not to mark my bottom, especially before I go to health check or spa. Then what happens if he still wants to use a cane?

There are two possibilities:
1. he hits on the side of my feet :( which is very painful but no matter how hard he hits and how many strokes it is, there is no mark on my feet. Just a bit red.

2. sometimes he hits with a very thin cane without using the full strength. The diameter of the cane is just around 3mm. It feels two times more painful than a usual cane of about 5mm maybe because of the smaller surface area in contact with the skin. It's exactly the same one I wrote in "a new, strange cane". Really painful when being hit, but it only makes my bottom red for 15 mins without leaving any mark.


Why am I writing about these?

My husband has put three new 3mm canes beside my laptop and study notes on the table where I study just now and said this is a response to my question last week.

"Hit with three canes at the same time?"
"Yes. Wanna try one stroke now?"
"No, thanks :( "

If one 3mm cane is two times more painful, then three used together means six times more painful!!!!!??

I shouldn't have asked that stupid question "What if I don't pass?".

a surprise to my husband

We have a grand piano at home. It's my husband's.

He likes playing Bach, and I like listening to Bach, especially partitas and the really easy collection of Magdalena Bach.

Then today I played my husband's piano for the first time. It's been almost ten years I haven't touched the piano.

Starting with this, my favourite one, I played a few easy pieces by sight reading.

I made quite a lot of mistakes at the start, because my sight reading was really slow, having not played the instrument for such a long time.

My husband smiled at me and said "not bad".

Then I suddenly recalled my favourite Beethoven's piece and played it from memory. He looked at me with total shock.

This is it. Exactly the same movement that I played, but I didn't record my own playing.

I made quite a few obvious mistakes and told my husband if that happened when I was a child my piano teacher would have told me off.

For the first time, my husband did not make any cheeky comments about scolding or spanking but looked at me straight into the eyes and said "Your technique is amazing! Why didn't you tell me you can play the piano?" As he said that, he kissed me and whispered "I love you" in my ear.

I didn't know my husband has such a sentimental side too.

my second German "writing" and "spanking"

German grammar seems quite complicated. Today I started learning Akkusativ, which seems to (I'm.not sure) be used for an object after a verb.

This language is not easy to learn but I'm learning it to know my bilingual husband better. He likes this idea too :)

This week's homework is to write about what I do and what I think about my job. It's hard because of my really limited vocabulary, but I've tried my best.

Here it is:
Ich arbeite als X. Ich muss mit wichtige Kunden treffen, viele Landes besuchen und viele Emails und Berichte schreiben. Als X kann ich ganzen tag mein Büro gehen nicht, aber meine Arbeitszeit ist sehr lange. Ich finde meine Arbeit interessant und flexibel.

You can probably tell what industry I'm in.

My husband looked happy with my "writing". He said there're some minor mistakes but I've done a good job.

"No punishment for the mistakes, right?" I asked.
"No. You want some?" my husband said.
Then he suddenly pulled me towards him and swiftly took down my parties under my night dress and spanked my bare bottom five times.

A bit like this, but I wasn't asked to bend over:

After five spanks...
"Enough?"
"Enough." I blushed and smiled.

Swat! "One more for smiling at me when you're spanked".

a test of honesty and self-discipline

My husband said I need the time and space to take care of my studies for the CFA exam in the coming weeks.

I have set up my own study plan, but he has reminded me not to be too stubborn about having to stick to a plan. He said a plan is meant to improve my efficiency, and if I am constantly behind schedule, then I should find out the root problem and adjust my plan or my study strategies.

Like a forecast of a company, the plan can almost never be 100% accurate, and it requires a lot of follow-up and adjustments to make the plan work the way we want it to be, my husband continued.

So my husband never gives me punishment for the little hiccups in the process of a "big project". He said in the coming month, he will trust my honesty and self-discipline, which unfortunately does not mean no punishment. It means I will report to my husband if I think I have done something wrong and need a punishment.

The last time I sit for the CFA Level 2 exam I reported to him three times: twice I was forgiven and offered suggestions from my husband; once I was given two strokes with a junior cane --- it hurt a lot maybe because it was on my bare bottom and I was put in the really uncomfortable diaper position with my bottom fully stretched and exposed. The two parallel lines were there on my bottom for five days!

Maybe something similar to this:

My husband said he hopes he does not need to give me any punishment this time. I hope so too.

pass or punish

Going to sit for the CFA exam in June. It's the last level, and my husband said we will travel to Switzerland for vacation again if I pass.

"What if I don't pass?" I asked.

Then he suddenly pulled down my panties under my skirt and asked me to guess.

I said I don't know.

Then he said he'll give me some hint and suddenly gave me a spank!

He asked if I needed more hint.

No, no, I've got it.

So the next 30 days I'll be studying a lot. Maybe I'll stop updating this blog, but let's see.

need to choose my own punishment :(

My husband has promised no.spanking this month.

But no spanking =/= no punishment (!)

Today he asked me, "So what should I do when you need to be punished?"

Oh...

"But I'll be good", I said with a soft voice.

"Answer my question", he insisted.

So here is the list I eventually came up with. Sigh...

1. Warning: verbal warning / line copying for 20 times

2. Light punishment: pacifier in my mouth for 30 mins / standing against the wall for 20 mins + line copying for 50-100 times

3. Serious punishment: ear pulling (my husband added "and twisting"!!!) / confiscation of credit cards and cash for one week (my husband added "will be given some pocket money but any purchase over €100 will be subject to approval") / pacifier in my mouth for 12 hours except meal time

 Seems to be even scarier than spanking :(

taking me home

My business trip has lasted for almost three weeks. My hubby said he is missing me. So am I :)

On FaceTime I showed my husband the small paddle he told me to buy, but he looked surprised --- because he did not expect me to get one?

I told him I'm worried he'd use it on me a lot once I'm home, but he's promised no spanking the entire May. Yay! 

Then he gave me another surprise. He's upgraded my flight ticket and he'll come here to take me home. Yay!

The last three weeks I was always on the go, visiting different companies and meeting different people and having little sleep. 

Now it's almost time to go home. Can't wait!

surprise

I've recently got a very good appraisal grade from my company! Yay!

I told my husband about it, and he felt happy for me. "Looks like my naughty girl has finally got some work done. I'm proud of you!" he said.

The news itself and the special bonus for this year is good enough for me.

Today when I was back to my hotel I got a note and I went to the frontdesk to collect a parcel.

There's a box and a card. It's my husband's handwriting.

I opened the box and saw this:

A bracelet with a plain design. Silver in colour. A brand that I like.

"Good girl, Well done! Keep up with your good work"

This man is really sweet.

Can you imagine it's the very same man who asked me to bring home a paddle to hit my bottom last week?

My first "writing" in German

I can speak a few languages because of my very special upbringing in different countries since I was 3. Recently I started learning German just for fun. It's also to get a better understanding of my husband. He's of course a native speaker of English but he grew up in a German-speaking place.

If you can understand German, you might have a lot of fun reading my "masterpiece" composed of totally random ideas like my husband did. He said I sound like a two-year-old lol

Here you are...

Ich bin Jenny. Ich komme aus Europa. Meine Hobbys sind Reise, Lesen, Klavier spielen, Wandern, Schwimmen und Tennis spielen.

Ich wohne in... Mein Telefonnummer ist...

If I sound like a two-year-old, it's good enough. I've learnt the language for only  one month anyway 😊