Sunday 26 November 2017

First business trip in Asia

Going to my first business trip to Asia tonight. To a place where I don't even speak the local language.

Just checked the weather there.
18-25 degrees. Sunny. Seems to be quite comfortable.

Makes me recall my childhood when I kept moving from one country to another. Just for one week this time. How will it be like? :)

Saturday 25 November 2017

Detention experience

I'm surprised there is still physical punishment in a few states in the US, then my husband told me he grew up in one of those states.

Me: did you get any detention?
My husband: Yeah
Me: did you get spanked?
My husband: Almost, but no

It's totally unbelievable there's still paddling in some states in 2017! But it's administered over clothed bottoms, my husband added.

But still...

My husband asked about my school experience. Well, I went to school in a number of countries, and among them only Costa Rica and Singapore allowed corporal punishment in schools back then. Being a very good girl at school, I never got spanked at school :)

The only detention experience I had was in high school in the US, after finishing my GCSE in England. You wouldn't believe I was already 16 back then. Just because I was being late for school like 10 times.

I still remember in the detention I was not allowed to talk to anyone and had to copy a very strange text about "Why Americans are always late". Thank God I didn't go to a school in one of those states in which paddling was allowed.

Friday 24 November 2017

1/4 done

Very tired having to go to England once a week to take two courses while having a very busy full-time job and taking a German class once a week (yawn~ )

I was in a very bad mood today and kept complaining the whole morning and afternoon, even when my husband was calling me through SKYPE.

I thought he'd scold me or tell me it's my choice or threaten to spank me when I'm home. He didn't.

I felt really grateful that he accepted my emotions.

He just said I'm almost done with my first semester. That's nearly 25% of the study programme.

Then he kissed me through the camera and said "you can do it!"

I like the combination of hard evidence and soft evidence that seems to be telling me I'm going to be okay.

Wednesday 22 November 2017

Yay! Off to Switzerland this Christmas!

Just got the results of my German written test yesterday.

My husband said if I can get 90% we'll go to Switzerland for Christmas.

Earlier today I got my results. At the same time I got a message from my husband.

My husband asked me about my score.

Me: I actually didn't get 90
My husband: That's ok
Me: I got 93 :D
My husband: naughty girl
Me: Who? :P
My husband: lol


Monday 20 November 2017

A2 German Test --- tomorrow!!!

I don't need German for work. I don't need German for studies. I don't need German to live a life. I'm studying German just to understand my husband more, cos he spent his early childhood in Germany.

After studying this language for 9 months, tomorrow I'll have a German test!!!

This morning my husband said if I get more than 90% he'll take me to Switzerland for Christmas :) My husband said if I prepare for my test but still get a bad score, there won't be any punishment.

I just couldn't believe what I heard. I probably had my eyes and my mouth widely opened... and my husband suddenly kissed me and gave me a cuddle and...

I whispered "Ich liebe dich" in his ear :)

Gonna continue with this after finishing my work later.

Sunday 19 November 2017

Arrived home safe and sound

In the end my husband didn't bring the paddle home. Phew (sigh of relief)

This morning when I woke up he asked me to show him my butt. I think my husband managed not to mark my bottom. He then rubbed it and said "it hurt, didn't it?" and told me to be a good girl so that he won't need to spank me at least till the end of 2017.

I hope so too.

Saturday 18 November 2017

Spanked for bad attitude

I have some German homework due next Monday. Since we're on a short trip in Eastern Europe, I wanted to get it done quickly and asked my husband to help me with my homework on reflexive pronouns in German, but he was busy and asked me to try first.

30 minutes later, he finished his work and knew that I did nothing. He demanded an explanation. I said it's just cos he didn't help me, blah blah blah.

My husband was not at all happy with my reaction.

Then, without knowing there's a paddle in the house, I was told to bend over and... paddled :(

And I was spanked on my bare bottom. I was never spanked with a paddle with holes. The pain was unimaginable.

After the first spank, I was already crying, but my husband did not want to stop.

Then another spank. Tears trailed down my cheeks immediately.

My husband then touched my butt to check the damage and announced "two more". I wanted to say noooooooooooooo but it didn't seem to be a good idea.

Finally I ended up having a red, burning bottom. My husband said he'll bring the paddle home if I'm a bad girl again this weekend. Please don't :(

Wednesday 8 November 2017

"Excellent"

I might not be a very good girl at home, but at work, I've got "excellent" from my appraiser and just got a two-digit percent salary increment :)

My husband said he's going to take me to a special place to celebrate when I finish work later this afternoon. Yeah!!!

Sunday 5 November 2017

lack of motivation for my homework

Two essays due next week. 0% progress.

I told my husband I don't know how to motivate myself. I just don't feel like doing anything today, but I said the same thing yesterday.

We spent the whole day going out, relaxing and having some fun.

Then my husband said we can't be doing what we did yesterday and he wanted to "motivate" me in another way: he put a nursery cane on the table next to my computer and books (!)

He said before I'm allowed to take a break (one hour later), if he sees me play with my phone / sitting on the sofa instead of working at my desk / doing anything not related to my assignment, he'll make me understand the power of a nursery cane and the need to focus :(

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I didn't play with anything or have snacks but only answered one call and replied to two messages. Then my husband said, after I started working on my essay for one hour, that I'm not working efficiently enough.

Then he told me to stand up and gave me one stroke over my pants :(

A light stroke, luckily.